There are so many thoughts and memories that I try to grab, to create a story (a coherent one, at that) and it is so hard because emotions, raw emotions flood my soul.
Describing the love that he has for our awesome kids, is kind of impossible.
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| 10 September 2010. |
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| 22 August 2012. |
Every year he grows in this role of dad - like every cell in his body just knows what to do and when to do it - how to respond in the unending changes in parenthood.
I always knew that he would be such a great dad, and he proves it to me all the time - not by being completely perfect - but by being real, raw, authentic, and present.
These two kiddos know just how lucky they are....
What I love is how active he is when he is around. He plays, and goofs around. Most of the time you'll find him and the kids together - they flock to each other. Me on the other hand, I hide in my bathroom with a face-mask - motherhood is hard.
I love how he plays with the kids - doing science kit experiments with Ian, and teaching Hayleigh how to sew.
I love that he is an involved that, amidst his super crazy busy (and sometimes unpredictable) work schedule - he chooses to be present over perfect.
He shows his vulnerability in parenthood (let's face it none of us know what we are doing) - he shares his heart, what he is good at and what he needs to work on. This has been a hard transition for our family, and after almost four years in the United States, we are still working out all the kinks. He show grace and forgiveness daily, loving all of us even when we suck as human beings.
Getting to raise these kids with him is one of my greatest joys.
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We had a very low key Father's Day (the day after the actual day.)
We had a super awesome and yummy breakfast, spending most of the morning around the table - laughing and telling stories.
We had an impromptu frozen yogurt date...
At this point my camera battery died....
But we went for a drive around town, and saw a bunny, and a fox. It as a highlight and everyone loved it.
Followed by park play, dinner, and bed.
It brought me to the realization that I need to get out more.
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To my own dad...
thank you for everything you are and have been.
All the good traits I have as a parent I learned from you. Happy Father's day to the dad who has and always will love me unconditionally (even when I suck), who still encourages me with all the wisdom, who adventures with me as often as possible, and who also happens to be the best oupa around. I love you, today, and every single day.
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When I married Nate I married him for me, and selfishly just me. I did know in my heart that one day he will be a great day - should we choose that path - I am so glad we did. I would have none of this without his wisdom, playful spirit, patience, and his dedication every single day - day in and day out. He isn't super into social media (and sharing stuff) but more then half of these sweet little tiny humans are all him. The kids are so incredibly lucky to call you dad <3
Happy Father's Day to all the incredible dads out there.
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